The Things We Don’t Want To Talk About
Welcome to The Things We Don’t Want To Talk About, a unfiltered podcast that dives into all the topics we have been taught to not openly discuss that ranges from debunking societal norms, including excerpts from life’s crazy experiences, and the conversations we are scared to have within ourselves. This podcast is a voice for the silenced, a outlet for those who need to feel, and the key to getting a better sense of self through vulnerability and transparency. To stay connected follow me on Instagram! @theeducatornkengeEmail: nkenge@accountabilitycounts.org
Episodes
41 episodes
Farewell Episode
Season 4: Episode 10: Farewell Episode This episode is my last one for this season and the last one for The Things We Don’t Want To Talk About. I reflected on what’s coming up and what I am grounding myself on for ...
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Season 4
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Episode 10
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18:30
You Are What You Attract
In this episode, I focus on reflecting on who we are at the core as it relates to core values, beliefs of self, facing our shadows etc. I pair this focus with analyzing “The Vanishing Black Family” documentary to bring attention to how our view...
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Season 4
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Episode 9
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26:34
The Value Of Social Connection
In this episode, I dive into the topic of meaningful connections, empathy, friendship, relational poverty, and more. I reflect on how the health of our relational connections directly affects our mental and physical health as I pair the less...
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Season 4
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Episode 8
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29:57
The Joy Of Self Awareness
In this episode, I dive into one of my favorite conversations which is talking about self-awareness and how to become more introspective. I reflect on a text I have been reading “What Happened To You: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and...
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Season 4
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Episode 7
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31:58
Where Our Relationship With Money Comes From
In this episode,I dive into the conversation of money and our limiting and affirming beliefs as it relates to how you view money and why. As a Black woman from Detroit in her 20s, I talk about how our family structure, financial status, and our...
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Season 4
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Episode 6
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33:05
We Are In A Literacy Crisis
In this episode, I highlight the issues educators are facing, Black & Brown youth being behind academically, the lack of support and resources being left out the conversation as the school year around the United States is coming to an en...
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Season 4
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Episode 5
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35:47
Everything Stems From Childhood
In this episode, I dive into a very vulnerable conversation about my childhood growing up and exploring the mental and emotional trauma I’ve experienced as a child in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month. I reflect on where my need to feel se...
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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31:01
Keeping Faith Under Fire
In this episode, I have an intimate conversation with my friend Josh a.k.a. “JayDeantae” on how we keep up our faith when our back is against the wall. Today we are in conversation about our mental health, domestic violence, the idea of bein...
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Season 4
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Episode 3
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49:26
Cathexis Versus Love
This episode dives into a great topic I’ve been wanting to be explore: cathexis versus love! Cathexis is the act of investing mental or emotional energy in a person, object or idea and often confused for love in so many of our intimate and non-...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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30:14
Where Have You Been?
This episode starts the beginning of Season 4! In this episode, I highlight the new changes that have taken place, focusing on doing hard things to have a better life, and learning and unlearning. Listen in as I dive into life the past 8 mon...
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Season 4
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Episode 1
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24:11
The Best Of The Things We Don't Want To Talk About
This episode is the finale of Season 3 and highlights the best episodes, and segments that highlight the season's growth, leaving everyone questioning what development and accountability we have held for ourselves throughout this season of l...
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Season 3
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Episode 10
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43:39
Giving Yourself What You Need
This episode focuses on how to identify what we need, creating a toolbox to refuel and recharge when needed, and reviewing the process of making our visions real. As someone who has struggled with putting my needs first, in this episode I ge...
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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26:57
Being Unapologetically You ft. #AskJenn
This episode focuses on what we idolize as “the girl’s girl”, how to find our true lane by being unapologetically ourselves, conversing about aesthetics vs reality and how to achieve the sense of self that is true to your value system and no...
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Season 3
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Episode 8
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46:04
Talking Money ft. Gene Green
This episode explores a true topic that we don’t want to talk about MONEY. Today we have a special guest Gene Green, and he is the owner of Fresh Baked Prints and as he would say “Every Day A Get Money Day” EDAGMD! We converse about the stan...
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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43:42
Inside Two Worlds: Life & Relationships ft. Mally Mal
This episode explores the intersection of life & relationships featuring a special guest! We look at the conversations we’ve been avoiding as it relates to the growth and inner work we need to do to sustain healthy relationships, the way...
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Season 3
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Episode 6
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1:02:09
Find Your Voice
This episode explores how we find our voice and look at what has inspired us to be who we are today while finding the strength to be able to declare what we want. We can become so used to silencing ourselves that we do not challenge ourselve...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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33:11
What's The Cost?
This episode goes in depth to explore what the cost of success is and what it takes to obtain what we really desire and if it is worth it. We live in such a busy world that requires us to give up so much to meet its needs and that can deplet...
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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30:15
The Power Of Social Media
This episode goes in depth about how our use of social media is taking over our minds, taking away our free will, while increasing our addiction to social media. The power of social media has led to our addiction to our phones and screens, s...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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27:19
We All Make Sacrifices
This episode is all about SACRIFICES! How to identify what we need to sacrifice, what is worthy of sacrifice, and how being able to sacrifice will improve our discipline and long term success along the way. Always remember sacrifices are lik...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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23:58
The Break Through
In this episode we are identifying what a breakthrough really looks like, finding joy in silence + stillness, and re-finding/defining purpose. This episode goes in-depth about what life has been like me for the past 6 months on the journey t...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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21:47
Keep Holding On
The season two finale episode is here and I am recapping this season the highs + lows , what I have taken from this year, and what I want my listeners to take as we are wrapping up for 2023. My reflection question that I want to leave ...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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16:02
What’s Your Core Fear?
This episode is all about identifying what’s your core fear and what’s stopping you from going after what’s supposed to be yours. The fear of what could happen if we really go after what we want combined with the fear of us not making it can be...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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24:17
Understanding Emotional Availability
This episode is all about breaking down emotional availability by analyzing what it is and how it looks depending on who is involved, the importance of being emotionally available in both intimate + non intimate relationships, and how we are ab...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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33:22
Experience Life For What It Is
This episode is all about assessing what you want out of your life by getting away from having expectations and truly experiencing life for what it is. Sometimes we can tend to not thoroughly engage in what life had to offer us because we get s...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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25:03
Themes Of Perfection & Overstimulation
This episode is all about exploring how the themes of perfection and overstimulation are present in our lives and how it hinders the natural gift of progressive growth that is much needed in our lives. We are constantly pushed to be “this pe...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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20:17